It’s like I’m forced to wear a bad shirt. In order to fit in with people who are not for you, you usually try to fit in where you are not for yourself. We are very obsessed. After falling in love with someone, no matter how bad it is for you, you tend to cling to that person. After reaching an environment, no matter how much it doesn’t suit you, you tend to anchor yourself in that environment.
After that, I started trying to fit in every day. While following that person’s likes, I no longer have my own likes. Spending time for that person, you have no time for yourself. Expecting unrequited love from that person, I no longer love myself. Trying to be comfortable with that environment, I no longer have my comforts. While taking care of the environment, I stopped taking care of myself.
Listening only to the sounds of the environment, I could no longer hear my own inner voice. Trying to match someone who doesn’t match, trying to match a place that doesn’t match, you lose happiness. Peace of Mind Peace of mind is lost. Time is wasted. Opportunities Good opportunities are lost. No matter how much you try to become fit, you lose a lot if you don’t become fit.
Every day passes with heat. The other side will not know this. They don’t know and don’t want to know. There is no body for that person and that environment. I’m just extra, So why are you still trying to fit in? Get out. Once you get out of the environment that really suits you and people who are really good to you, you will see a lot.