We can’t control anyone. They think they can control to love themselves. Can’t. They think they can control themselves to take care of themselves. They think they can control their time. They think they can control themselves to value themselves. You can’t do that either. There are no control buttons for someone to come into your life, how long to stay in your life, and how long to stay out of your life.
A person’s changing feelings over time, the period of time they can love, the amount of love they can give, the amount of understanding and acceptance of them, we can’t control these things. Whatever you can do:
- Accept – The event will be accepted.
- Heal – If you are suffering from pain, I will treat it.
- Love Self – I will love myself more.
Only these 3 must be done. Whoever comes, let it come. Has a person come into your life? Accept it. Who stays, let it stay. Are you living your life in peace? Live together. Who goes, let go. Are you going to leave your life? Ask him to leave. Whether you’re friends or lovers, stay together as best as you can. Only give true love from your side. Appreciate it. Be faithful. Love Me.
True love flows reciprocally. On the other hand, if the flow has stopped, it is very obvious. In that case, let me leave your life. If there is any pain, it can be treated. The important thing is to cultivate Self-Love. No matter who leaves your life, the only person who will be with you until the end of your life is yourself. So love yourself first and then love others. You have to be yourself first in your life. I am not anyone
You can’t control yourself and don’t let anyone control you.