Some people set themselves as a priority. Some people define themselves as Option. Priority means to be considered important or to be given priority or to be valued. An option is considered to be one of the options and is used when necessary.
I haven’t seen my friend for 2 months and I want to meet him, so let’s say, “I’ll make time this week.” is prioritized. “If I have time this month, I’ll see you.” is an option. My boyfriend forgot the anniversary date. Let’s just say that I made a short phone call. Apologizing and running to me in the evening was made a priority.
Don’t be angry about this matter, and getting angry again is being made an option. Being an option is very tiring. To get this person’s love, to get this person’s time, to get this person’s appreciation, to get this person’s attention
It’s like standing in line.
People who are more important than me in this person’s life. It’s full of things that are more important than myself, and I’m always in the back. We can’t control if a person does not set himself as an option and set him as a priority. We cannot change. What we can do is stay away from those who consider it an option and live around those who consider it a priority.
People who put you as a priority feel true love. They make you feel peaceful and happy whenever you are together. Understanding and acceptance. Highlight your strengths. It blurs your own weaknesses. Everyone has their priorities. I only look at those who give option, so I don’t see those who give priority. Don’t look at option providers.
See who prioritizes. After that, expel those who give options from life and let only those who give priority remain in life. I must be someone who gives back priority to those who give priority. Don’t forget that if you return the option, you will also be left behind.